Would You Marry Someone With A Lot of Debt?

weddingdressYesterday a patient of mine came in to see me who I haven’t seen in 18 months. She is one of my favorites so I was excited to have the time to catch up a little. When she mentioned she was moving to the UK at the end of the year to do a short term work term over there I asked if her boyfriend was going with her.

There was no longer a boyfriend. Opps.

As long as I’ve known her she was vomit-worthy, head-over-heels in love with this dude so I was a little taken aback when she told me they split. She explained that while they were dating (four years) he managed to accumulate almost $40,000 in debt from pursuing his Master’s degree (she didn’t say what in), and once he finished he had a hard time finding work.

According to her, she couldn’t be with a man long-term, and eventually marry, who had debt. Plain and simple. If he wasn’t working in his field and paying off his debt before they wed, she simply couldn’t be with him.

{Let’s assume there really was nothing else wrong in this relationship, because there likely was, and run with what she so point-blankly said to me. She refused to marry a man who had debt.}

Everyone is individual, I get that, but debt from pursuing higher education is no-go? Really?!

I would totally understand if she got spooked because she found out he racked up 40k in credit card debt from frivolous spending and uncontrolled gambling, but he didn’t. It was debt he took on for education. Yes, debt is debt, but how one accumulates it should be taken into consideration shouldn’t it?

I came into our marriage with a TON of debt. Mike had very little before he married my deficit bank account. Since we’ve been together since we were 16 my debt was never a secret, he knew every penny I took on when it happened, so transparency was never an issue with us. I don’t think he ever considered not marrying me because of this debtload though.

We were in love (still are!) and wanted to get married. We’re proponents of 100% combined finances so our money goes towards our life and goals. One of those goals being paying debt off-together (though I’m not suggesting method this works for all couples).

Though Mike and I are pretty much even in terms of income there were times it was lopsided one way or the other but we still never thought about it as more or less per person. It was total coming in for our household. If Mike made 110k per year and I managed the other 20k it wouldn’t matter to us. This mentality from the get-go has made our lives much easier. I don’t think I realize or appreciate how many arguments we’ve managed to avoid in our marriage because of this.

While I could pay this debt off on my own if I needed to, working towards such a huge goal with my spouse is sort of nice. Though I was the one who took the debt on, we both reap the benefits of my well-paying job- possible because of this debt and what it signifies (two university degrees).

When it comes to relationships and bringing debt into the equation I really think it needs to be looked at as an individual basis and not a black and white scenario as my patient was making it out to me during our conversation but everyone is different… How about you, would you/have you marry someone with a lot of debt?

How to Graduate Debt Free-For Real!

Source: Free Digital Photos

Source: Free Digital Photos

As someone who finished university with a mountain of debt, it’s funny for me to discuss such a topic but it can be argued that graduating with debt makes it clear to see what I could have done to avoid it.

First, I do believe it is possible to graduate from post secondary debt free (without help from your parents!). Though I didn’t believe this for a second when the responsibility was on me, I now know I could have (easily) avoided a massive amount of the debt I’m currently carrying. Not only could I have avoided a bunch of debt, I could have still maintained a social life and time for my studies. I know this because I was once in the position to do so but ignored it.

Do well in school.

The easiest way to get financial help is to do well in school and be competitive to get bursaries and scholarships. Though I had a few scholarships, I had the mentality that unless it was enough to pay for ”it all” it was useless. The reality is that every few hundred dollars helps and is money you won’t have to pay back so apply, apply, APPLY!

Get a job.

Obviously if you’re going to save for post secondary getting a job would be the first step. Assuming you get a job when you turn 16, that gives you two full years of saving ability before you start post secondary. Had I saved every penny I earned from the time I was 16 until the day I started university (working 10-20 hours per week while in school and 25-30hr per week during summer and breaks) I could have easily had enough for my first year of university (books, tuition and transit). Even if I had saved 50% of what I earned I would have had enough for my books and probably one semester of school. With a budget it’s possible. Don’t blow your paycheque, save a minimum of half for school (ideally more) and you’ll thank yourself.

Work hard in the summer.

Though I was tempted to drop life and hang at the beach all day in the summer I didn’t. I would always work more during the summer months picking up extra shifts at my job working in a pharmacy and look for more opportunities to get a second job. Because my primary job had really inconsistent shift work (shifts ranged anywhere between 9am-10pm, sometimes a full 13 hour shift) it made getting a second job hard but not impossible. One summer I was able to help a new doctor in town and nanny for her as her family got settled in and she adapted to the new ER with two young kids. Her erratic schedule worked fine with my shifts. Though it sucked that it was summer and I was working 70-80 hour weeks, the pay between the two jobs was nice. I have no idea where most of that money went to be honest. I bought my text books for the semester and had a lot of fun during my time off…Had I saved my money appropriately, again I could have easily had one full year paid for and still have had spending money in the summer.

Maintain a job in school.

It can be hard, downright near impossible but it is possible, trust me. I’ve been in a demanding program that had me enrolled in 13 credit hours in one semester, in school 12 hour days but still managed to make money during some evenings and weekends. I became good at scheduling and prioritizing my time well.

Take time off.

After my first semester of year one in my undergraduate degree, I told my mom I wanted to take some time off. My plans were changing and I wasn’t totally sure what I wanted to do anymore. She strongly discouraged this plan and it’s a regret I still have. Though I have no regrets about my current career, had I taken some time off to work and figure things out I’m sure things may have been different and I likely wouldn’t have had the same debt I do. Some of my most successful peers are ones who took time off, traveled/worked/volunteered for a year then went back to school.


As I learned the hard way, it doesn’t mater how much money you have coming in, if you know how to budget the money will likely vanish. You need to establish your priorities why are you working?– and stick to your goals!

Did you pay your way through school and graduate debt free? How did you manage?

March 2014 Debt Repayment Updates

I’m in complete denial that it’s April. I feel like I should be writing an update for February with the weather we’re still experiencing! This week it will turn though, I can feel it (or maybe that’s more denial setting in…).

March was a decent month for us. I finished our taxes which I talked about and it wasn’t as scary as I was expecting which was nice. I’ve decided to hold onto the money I had set aside though…just in case I was wrong about something and it comes back to hunt me. I mentioned earlier this year that we were planning on purchasing and installing a heatpump in our home which we have since decided to forgo. There are many other things that need the financial attention. If we planned on living here more than three to four more years it would be a no-brainer but after looking at things, we’ve changed our minds.

I also mentioned that I had a secret savings goal earlier this year and the secret is now out (my rubber arm was twisted). Mike and I, along with our four best friends, are heading to Florida next year for a long weekend hockey trip! Mike’s 30th birthday is in January and his favorite team is the Columbus Blue Jackets (long story.) so we plan on flying to Florida in Jan/Feb for Columbus’ road trip to see them play in Florida for an adults weekend. I was trying to keep this a secret from Mike as long as possible but then I realized he’d definitely need to know ASAP for his work plans and he’s excited to help plan with the rest of us. I am so excited to getaway for four nights (read: sleep), enjoy some wicked company, eat an actual uninterrupted meal, and catch an NHL game. It will be a good time :)

Back to debt repayment…In March we managed to put $2,299 towards debt. I’m just realizing right now that we were $1.00 off an even $2,300- how annoying. To remind our monthly target is $2068 which we beat by $231. This thanks to me working an extra shift at my job. My hope is to keep up with increased amounts and hope to make an average contribution of $2,300 going forward. We’ll see how things go I guess :) For different reasons 2.5 of my writing jobs ended in March which stinks (one is on hold not ended for certain) so if anyone is looking for a writer shoot me an email, I have big goals to meet!

How did everyone else do with goals in March?


Taxes Are Done. How Did We Spend Our Money in 2014?

wpid-20150403_134058.jpgI hope everyone had a great Easter. We had a great weekend though it went too fast! Maria was really into Easter this year which was fun to watch. Though I spent most of the weekend with our family, I did find some time to pretty much finish our taxes up (I’m waiting on confirmation for one payment amount before I submit).

I have a love/hate relationship with taxes. I sort of love doing them but really hate it at the same time. Though I keep a lot of lists and notes in my head, I’m actually a terrible record keeper on paper which isn’t the best thing come tax time. I miss the good ‘ol days when I was working one part-time job with minimal income and loads of rebates. Now things are complicated with full-time job, a child, freelance writing to claim (a headache of its own)…it’s slightly more involved now!

I’m happy to report that if my numbers are correct, I overestimated how much I’ll need to pay-in and can adjust accordingly for next year. I expect everything to remain about the same in the coming year so I’m pretty confident in making the changes. Given that we have more in ”tax payment savings” than we require, I’m sort of excited to get my notice of assessment and move the money out of this account.

I won’t be doing anything too exciting with these extra funds though. Adding more to our ER fund and maybe a little bit to our upcoming trip account (more on that later). Basically moving from one savings account to another.

Doing taxes reminded me, again, that I really need to be a better record keeper. I’m pretty good with receipts and keep track of important documents but paying attention to online fees and alike stuff always gets the best of me and I need to pay better attention.

I also admit that there are likely deductions I am entitled to which I have missed because of my lack of record keeping…my loss. I vow to be better for the upcoming year and I’m starting with paying more attention to my online accounting software so I can calculate things like paypal fees paid more than once a year!

I have been audited almost every year of my tax-paying years so you’d think I’d learn my lesson…

In terms of how I actually filed the taxes, I played around with every tax software available and in the end UFile won out for many reasons. I like to play around with different programs and see what’s changed from year to year. H&R Block was working ok in the beginning but then started giving me an error message that even the tech support didn’t know how to fix. I found TurboTax to be messy and was giving me inconsistent refund/balance owing amounts (I swear every time I logged in there was a different amount) and in the end trusty UFile won my heart. I’ve used all three programs for different years. When I was on maternity leave for instance, H&R Block was the only program that would allow me to correctly add my government maternity leave tax papers, though I noticed all three programs had it this year. Going forward I’ll probably stick to UFile since I like the layout the best.

It’s never fun to do but taxes certainly go give clarity on our spending. Our snapshot looks like this (all very approximate % of our gross income):

  • 35% went towards taxes.
  • 20% went towards debt payments.
  • 11% went towards mortgage and property tax payments.
  • 5%  went towards daycare costs.
  • 5% went towards housing utilities (everything from power to cell phones).
  • 2% went towards hobbies (blogging mostly)
  • 1% went into savings (topping up ER fund)
  • 0.75% went towards work expenses (licensing fees)
  • 0.25% went towards investments (small sum for kiddo every year until debt is paid off).

That leave approximately 20% of our gross income which is what we lived off. With this 20% we bought groceries, clothes, had birthday parties, Christmas gifts, paid for prescriptions, basically everything else you could possible think of. When I think about it this way, living off 20% of one’s gross income is a number I’m happy with. It also shows me that when this debt is paid off we have approximately 20% of our gross income to reallocate (most of which will become retirement savings).

How did everyone else fair with their taxes? Any big refunds coming your way??

Set Your Alarm Five Miutes Earlier (and Other Simple Tasks to Make Your Day Run Better!)

My husband thinks I’m crazy.  I complain all day about how tired I am but instead of relaxing when Maria goes to bed, I immediately go into overdrive. I clean the kitchen, I make lunch, I vacuum (which drives him especially crazy), I start laundry, the list goes on. While he’s trying to get me to sit down for two seconds, I’m buzzing around the house, but I have to.

I cannot go to bed with a dirty kitchen. If we throw an event at our house and I know I’ll be home the following day, I might allow it but that is the only time. Waking up to chaos sets my entire day off. This past Monday was one of those chaotic mornings and it sat with me all day. If I don’t get on top of my day it ruins my mood. Setting your morning off right will give you a sense of peace and allow you to actually focus on your day rather than a to-do list at home.

Here are simple tasks you can do every day to make the following day run as smooth as possible.

Make sure the kitchen counter is clean, every night. I don’t know why the kitchen area is a dropping zone for families but it seems to be a common trend, I know I’m not alone. Waking up and having everything put away and counters cleared off gives me a huge sense of calm when I wake up. I know I won’t have to waste my time looking for anything in there since it’s all away.

Tidy. Goes with clean kitchen but if you wake up and step on something like Lego- game over, your day is done. You don’t have deep clean but make sure there is a clear path through the house.

Do laundry and actually put it away. I struggle with this but I’m trying to get better. For me it helps if I fold it as I’m taking it out of the dryer (or off the line in summer). This way I can carry the basket and just put things away. There is nothing worse than finding out the laundry you thought was done is actually still sitting  in a dirty pile as you’re looking for work outfit, or you can’t find your kids pink underwear which she insists on wearing. If things are put away immediately it answers all questions and saves major time.

Make your lunch the night before. You are bringing lunch to work/school right? If not start, your wallet will thank you. I can’t imagine trying to do this in the morning. Having it packed and ready to grab is a huge lifesaver for me.

Have your daily things in order. For me I have mine and kiddos bags packed and ready to throw lunch into and go. Mike puts his wallet and keys in the same spot every night so we don’t waste time looking. It takes time to get into the habit but huge timesaver.

Set your alarm five minutes earlier. It may seem like five minutes is no big deal but trust me it is. When used effectively, the added five minutes can give you much needed breathing room in your morning routine and commute. It might mean actually getting a coffee- huge bonus!

These are the things that help me and my chaotic mornings, what sort of thing help you get out the door stress free?

Teaching Kids Financial Responsibility


The contents of my daughter’s purse. I don’t think I have to worry about a spending spree anytime soon.

Last week I ended my work week with a 16-year-old patient. She came in to see me for the first time in almost two years. I was honestly shocked at the state of her teeth (something that is hard to do to me). The few areas we had been keeping a close eye on in the previous few years, we’re now massive cavities. Cavities so large that even a root canal treatment wouldn’t save them. At 16 she was looking at heavy dose of antibiotics, two to three extractions (major sad face) and nine fillings. All of these, 100% preventable.

I couldn’t be nice to her anymore. I needed to be firm and have her understand how serious this was and for me to figure out how, and why, this happened.

Teeth don’t die a natural death, we kill them.

I took time to explain, in a lot of detail, what’s going on, why it’s going on, and stress the gravity of it all. I then look to her for a mature series of answers. I get nothing.

She immediately places blame on us (the dental office) for not getting her in sooner (we’ve called her 11 times in last 18 months), then tells us it’s not her fault because it’s her moms responsibility to get her to her appointments (she lives within walking distance to the office) and continues on with a line of answers that leave me frustrated and deflated. She took zero ownership for what was going on in her mouth. Every issue was someone else’s fault and her lack of maturity left me with no option but to call her mom, give her the detail and let her deal with it since I was at my limit for what I could do for her.

At 16 she should, 100% be taking responsibility for her own actions especially when it comes to something like her body and heath. This situation scares me for how much lack of responsibility if actually out there in our young kids.

I think financial responsibility is one of the most important nuggets of knowledge we can teach our kids. I honestly think if I can raise my daughter to be confident, polite and responsible for her actions in life, I will have succeeded as a parent. With responsibility in life, financial responsibility is a major factor.

Whether we like it or not, money rules the world. We rely on it to live and when not used responsibly it gets us in big trouble. We as parents have a major responsibility to teach our kids how to handle all sorts of different financial situations. I tell my patients all the time it’s my job to give them the information, it’s up to them to do with it as they please. Same with lessons I teach my daughter. When it comes to money I will do my best to show her the way, teach her lessons and give her all the information I have. It will be 100% her responsibility to use this information properly.

I expect mistakes. I expect financial mishaps, this is how we learn but I hope she does it while living in the comfort and protection of our home. It’s never too early to start. At the age of three, we’re already trying to have her understand money. We’re starting with basic concepts right now- what money is and why we need it. Every day she asks why we need to go to work and we explain one of the main reasons is that mommy and daddy need to earn money. When she gets into my purse and pulls my wallet out- she always asks if she can ”have some monies for her piggy bank” to which I usually give her. I hand over a few small coins and tell her what they are.

I find sometimes we’re too quick to bombard our kids with info and in turn they ignore what we’re trying to teach them. If we start slow and build a foundation they will be much more receptive of information. Money isn’t a topic that can be taken lightly. We as parents worry about so much: sex, drugs, social media, avoid strangers that money often fails as a topic but don’t let it! Your kids will thank you.

How do/will you teach your kids about money?

A Look at My Financial Priorities

The future looks bright :)

The future looks bright :)

The thing I love about personal finance is that it is just that- personal. I love hearing about how and why people choose to do things with their money. Even if I can’t relate I’m curious to know what makes people tick when it comes to their finances. Though I’m pretty clear about our goal to pay debt off, I’ve never really talked about my financial priorities as a general topic and so here they are:

1) Pay off debt. Obvious I guess, but we’re almost halfway there with a goal to have the remaining $70,000+ paid off in 2.5 years.

2) Buy a second car, with cash. We need a second vehicle. We’ve made it work with one vehicle for now but it is less than ideal. When Mike goes out of town for work I am 100% reliant on our family (thanks guys!) which works for now but it’s not great. Maria is also starting to get involved in things (I’m officially a soccer mom) which means getting me from work and having her at the field at the same time won’t work. Buying a second car might happen before the debt is entirely paid off. I suspect in 12 or so months we’ll start saving for one.

3) Start long term savings. We have savings for short term goals and emergency fund but no retirement savings. I’m not worried about it though since we’ll have over $2,000/month to play with when debt is gone- and incomes will increase. Living a life where we we’re required to live on so little has also put retirement into perspective for us. I don’t think we really need 70-80% of our pre-retirement income. I think we’d be happy with 45-50% of our pre-retirement income though I know we’ll achieve more.

4) Have more kids. Though this isn’t directly ”financial”, it also is in many ways. Kids aren’t cheap and we need many things in place before we have more (see 1-3 above).

5) Increase travel fund, significantly. Travel is important to us. I’d rather spend money on experiences and travel than things, any day of the week. We currently have little to no travel fund, we save for small events like out-of-province family reunions but no current regular travel fund savings. We won’t be a couple that flies south every winter either. I’d rather spend two weeks in Europe every two to three years and really learn something then get a sunburn every winter in a sunny destination. We’d love to eventually attend a winter Olympics too.

6) Increase post secondary savings for kiddo. We’re putting aside a small amount every month now but will increase this once our debt is paid off.

7) Move. We have a goal to move in 3.5-4 years. I’ve said it before but this house just doesn’t work great for us for many reasons and so we’ll move. I’d like to have 20% down when we move into next property which we should be able to do between our personal savings and nine years of equity in current property. We’re not necessarily looking for more home just better layout and away from this particular street.

Even though these are things we won’t start acting on for a few years, I think it’s important to see beyond the initial goal of paying debt off and project where you want your life to be within a five year window. I don’t want to wish time away by any means but I’m excited to see how we accomplish everything!

What do your financial priorities look like?

Breaking Free From Your Financial Upbringing

There is truth in the saying that you are a product of your upbringing. You are more likely to become the type of person based on what you know, and the environment you were brought up in. This doesn’t have to be true though.

Though I have some traits of my upbringing I am so far from my environmental circumstances it amazes me. I’d like to think I grew up with the ability to learn the good and learn lessons from the bad. I truly believe we’re put though situations (good and bad) to learn from them and especially when it came to finances, I had a lot of lessons to learn. When it comes to my financial know-how I am not a product of my upbringing.

The Frugalwoods had am amazing post recently about their how their upbringing gave them a privileged advantage over most. Something I would argue most of the personal finance niche can relate to. I can to some degree but not all points. Yes I grew up in a house where education was important and, academically, was probably more inclined than most of my peers (as a population not just my friends) but there were limitations too.

Though I grew up in a house where getting a good deal was exciting and credit cards were paid off in full every month, I learned nothing about finances. My mom (single parent) meal planned and shopped sales like it was a hobby but didn’t repair things around the house like she should have. Though she hoarded money in her retirement account like the apocalypse might happen tomorrow, I’m certain she had no access to emergency funds, and to her a credit card would be the answer (even if she could pay it off in a reasonable time frame). She had an extremely distorted relationship with money and financial priorities.

When I realized this truth I also realized that I couldn’t let this be my reality. I had to educate myself on everything I could to break free from what I knew in my upbringing. I wasn’t going to let my upbringing be an excuse to not obtain the life I wanted and needed for my family.

You don’t have to be a product of your financial upbringing. Just because it wasn’t taught to you isn’t an excuse to not make it a priority. Too many people use ”I didn’t know” as an excuse. You know you need to pay debt off. You know you need money for retirement. You know you need an emergency fund. If you don’t know how to achieve these things, educate yourself.

It didn’t take me long to figure out that I needed to do all of these things but it did take time for me to figure out how to do it. I Googled, I read blogs, I took out books from the library. Everyday I continue to improve my knowledge about my finances and I have no one but myself to blame for my situation. I didn’t want to be a product of my financial upbringing so I did what I needed to do to change it.

Have you needed to change anything about your financial upbringing?


A Snapshot at Our Debt (Almost Half Gone!)

wpid-20150318_101631.jpgThough I do my monthly debt repayment updates, it’s been a while since we looked at our overall debt. Given that I’m currently sitting under a massive amount of snow (see picture), and avoiding my income tax, I decided to write this instead. Back in October I decided I wanted to payoff $70,000 in 36 months (of remaining $81,500), something we’re still working towards. I have ambitions of knocking off a few months so this is a ”worst case scenario” plan.

To remind people…

Our highest non-mortgage debt, back in  winter of 2010/11, was at around $135,000. This included traditional student loans, student lines of credit, some credit cards (used for tuition…) and a vehicle.

Given that the interest rate is so low on our debts (all under 5%) even making minimum payments had an effect and we were able to pay off thousands with little to no effort. It wasn’t enough though. We were still going to be in debt for 10-15 more years if we didn’t ramp up our efforts.

During my maternity leave in 2012, we decided that we finally needed to quit making minimum payments (as we were since January 2010) and get real. We cut our expenses, made many budgets, consolidated some debt and came up with a plan. We wanted to live our life with our daughter and that life didn’t include any debt. Given that I was on maternity leave until end of May of 2013, and needed to make up a bit of lost income when I did go back to work (ie deal with some expenses that came up while off that we couldn’t afford at the time and added daycare costs) our efforts didn’t truly start in full swing until end of 2013/beginning of 2014.

As of today, our total non-mortgage debt is sitting at $72,756.98.

In just a few months our debt will be more than half gone. Half of $135, 000 is a lot of money! It will have taken us five years to pay off the first half and only 2.5 years to pay off the remaining half. It’s amazing what you can put your mind to when you really want. It’s also amazing to me to think that if we had put this much effort in from the very beginning I wouldn’t be writing this right now as we’d likely be debt free.

Mike and I have learned a lot on this financial journey and continue to learn every day. The last five years have flown by so I know the next 2.5, though I feel like may go on forever, will also go fast. Maria turns three in less than three months and that scares me. I’m excited that by the time she starts her education we will have finally paid our (post secondary) off. It’s not been easy but it’s been so worth it!

How To Avoid Being House Poor

I love real estate. Though sometimes I wish I was still a renter, for the most part I enjoy owning a home (or mortgage at this point). Though we currently own a home, have careers, a kid and all those other ”grown up things” I don’t feel settled in my life yet I think part of it is because I know, in the not too distant future, we will be moving.

This home was always our starter home. We bought knowing within a 10 year max window we’d sell and settle into what would likely be our forever (or at least super long-term) home. I remember meeting with our mortgage broker the first time and having him spit out the number we could ”afford”, I was blown away. Even with, at the time, close to $100,000 worth of debt we were told we could look at homes more than 5x our combined gross income, and this is how people get in trouble.

Being ”house poor” insinuates you can have the home you want and basically afford nothing else in life, which, isn’t any fun at all. What’s the fun of owning a super nice home with a kick-ass kitchen with no money to entertain in it? And while it may be nice that you own a pool, it’s the last pool you’ll ever swim in because you can’t afford a Rec membership or any trips. Being house poor is NO fun which is why we knew we needed to avoid it at all costs.

Don’t Spend Your Max Budget

One thing is for sure, had we purchased at the max budget we’d be in a lot of trouble right now. There would be NO money to pay this debt off and we’d be cranky miserable people sitting in our unfurnished house with no friends left to have fun with. It would suck. When our debt is paid off, our max budget will mean our mortgage payment is four times what it currently is, if we let this happen we’d put the rest of our lives, and retirement in serious jeopardy.

Be Realistic About How Much House You ”Need”

I feel like I’m constantly cleaning, something Mike and I manage between us but I can’t imagine adding another 1,500 sqft to this to clean. I don’t need a lot of space, I need functionality and well-laid out floor plan to make my life easier but I don’t need to double the square footage of my current home when we do move. Especially since having a kid my list of wants and needs has drastically changed.

Do a Mock Budget

Before you buy that house, do up a budget that includes various mortgage payments to see how it will affect everything else. This will give you a better idea of how your life will look depending on the size of the mortgage payment. If you really want that larger home, you may need to cut back on other things. Doing up a mock budget will show  you everything laid out.

Save a Larger Downpayment

Especially when it comes to your first home, it can be tough to wait but the fact remains that the larger the downpayment the more affordable your home becomes so sometimes a few months can make a big difference.

Owning a home can be a lot of fun but if you let your home own you, you’ll quickly start resenting it. It will likely be the largest debt you ever take on so make sure you’re able to afford the payments with the lifestyle you want.